Red Velvet Media & Holly's Valentine Gifts suggestions –She will love it!

Red Velvet Media or I should say "Holly"(me) is no stranger to Valentine’s Day.
I remember last year and the response I got from the cool drink my friends made and I suggested.. Now I'm getting down to what I know all us Girls want!
After all.....We all want to feel girlie!:)))

If you’re after the perfect Valentine’s gift look no further than some of my personal favorite Valentine Gifts suggestions – featuring MY pick"s of the best treats to indulge and excite your lover, and ignite passion in the bedroom! But if you don’t know where to start... Read my Top Tips designed to make sure you give her what's really wanted this Valentine’s Day!
Tip 1: Colours that complement
Whilst scarlet red lingerie may be the tradition, classic black, rich cream and feminine pink are all guaranteed to please.
But if you want to surprise her, take a look in her wardrobe to see her favourite colours.

Most lingerie is available in a beautiful array of colours from vibrant orange to midnight blue.

Tip 2: Know her style
Consider her personal style - is she usually cute and girlie, luxurious and decadent, stylish and sophisticated or adventurous and daring?
No matter what she's like, you can find the perfect Valentine's lingerie set for her.

To get you started, here's some of MY favourites:
* Cute: Love, Minnie, Francoise and Fifi
* Luxurious: Love, Maitre D, Black Swan and Kiki
* Sophisticated: Damsella, Meteorite, Gypsy and Ponytail
* Adventurous: Cendrillon, Marylin, Marquis and Ruxandra

If you've only just met and don't know her too well you may want to try a flirty babydoll,Or if you've been together for a while, while not spice things to with a seductive corset or basque to make her feel utterly fabulous.
I remember a Easter one year and I had just stared Dating a man and he bought me the most girlie pink Lacey Gingham Babydoll with Matching Panties and little bows and the cutest pink and white cotton knee highs.. to Match with bows on top!
I wear knee highs under my jeans or with a dress..They are comfortable and oh so sexy and they are perfect for under boots....Just a Little showing at the top and .. you know what your wearing...!


Tip 3: Get the size right! I always hated getting a bra that was too small..:(
If possible, take a look inside the labels of her favourite lingerie set to find the size she feels most comfortable in.


Once you know what size you’re after, it's quick & easy way to find something that will fit her.

Tip 4: Complete the look
To make her feel truly fabulous, choose the bra first and pair it with the style of knicker(Panties) you think she’ll be most comfortable in.
The matching suspender belt(Garters) will make her feel like a true seductress, whilst stockings add an extra touch of glamour.

Spoil her, and watch her bring hosiery and suspenders into her everyday attire!

I personally like thigh Highs and not Garters but.. Garters can be very sexy and fun for some!
Tip 5: Lingerie isn’t the only option
Whilst a seductive lingerie set is always a pleasure to receive,
a slinky slip or curve creating basque is an alternative that never fails to please.

A pair of butter-soft leather over the knee boots will please the discerning fashionista, whilst luxurious beauty products too will make her feel fabulous.
I love wearing boots under Jeans or with a dress.... and Beauty products...Don't get me started..I love Chocolate Orange Body butter by "Fresh" and there SUGAR LEMON line is a must...the Soaps are cool too..they come in all sorts of fragrances and are a fun way to indulge! CLICK HERE TO GO TO FRESH! and My favorite thing to do is add real rose water to the final rinse of my hair!
I am often seen gathering rose petals and Lilac when its is season and I custom blend my own oils... Lately it has been Vanilla and Patchouli.. I do like mixing Chocolate with Vanilla too.. It depends on my mood ..But Real oils not synthetic are a real turn on and Last..You can find High quality oils at most essential oil stores.. Make sure they are pure!
Feeling daring? Turn up the heat with playful heart-shaped pasties or a teasing silk eyemask, or let her take control with one of our decadent whips or paddles...

I personally don't use Whips or Paddles but they are fun for the effect!


Tip 6: Have her Create a wish list!
Take the guesswork out of gift giving by asking her to create a wish list.
I have many! Not just the girly stuff but books, Music,Travel destination's, ETC..
Ask her to simply browse the web and save the items she likes in the correct sizes, before sending you her lust-haves.
I have so many bookmarks!I add new ones every day!
My Favorite thing or shall I say most men's favorite thing is most companies offer
Free gift boxes, discreet delivery & free online returns!
They take the hassle out of gift wrapping !
I like the boxes that are pink and girlie!
To maintain the surprise of your gift, Most will be discreetly delivered to your door,Or hers no matter where you are in the world...I never know where I will be!
Ummmm... Paris or a nice Island sounds good to me....As long as there is chocolate ..I'm there!


Happy shopping!

From a friend.. all about Love.....

I got this from Harold Becker and I so wanted to share this with all of you!
V day is almost here!
Dear Friends,

We are forever surrounded by love. From the rays of the sun that nurture and sustain life on our precious planet, to extending a helping hand to another in need, our existence is found within this unifying principle we know in our heart as love. Life itself is the expression of unconditional love and you are here right now simply because you are a magnificent presence of this same love.

The beauty of our journey is that we represent a full spectrum of sizes and shapes, colors and gender, beliefs and perspectives, while being ever connected in a common bond of unity through our heart. From the tiniest atomic particle to the brilliance of an imaginative idea that changes the world, it is love that guides our grand expedition in this experience of life.

We live to love just as we love to live. Each of us represents a wonderfully diverse and unique expression of our individual and collective potential to share love. This love animates and propels us forward to experience love in every aspect and facet of life. It is our deepest aspiration to embody this love since that is who we are at the core of our being.

Even when we choose to create the illusion that we are somehow separate from love, the potential to love remains in each moment. If we allow the perception of separation to last long enough so that we begin to doubt ourselves and this eternal connection, or even beyond to where the thought of fear intrudes, a simple recognition of our heartbeat is enough to remind us that love is right within our being.

You matter with each breath you breathe and step you take. Every action and interaction, thought, word and feeling makes a difference to everyone. No one could ever take your place and what you bring to this amazing tapestry of life is invaluable and cherished. This is the way of love. This is you… an amazing presence of love.

Love, light and peace,
Harold W. Becker
President and Founder
The Love Foundation, Inc.
“Inspiring People to Love Unconditionally”
www.thelovefoundation.com

Red Velvet Media ,John Lennon &Tommie Brewster

JANUARY 22,2010 BLOGTALKRADIO LINK IS www.blogtalkradio.com/redvelvetmedia

****Please Join Red Velvet Media In ringing in the New Year and taking about all the important things that life will be throwing at us this year. You never know who may show up to talk on Red Velvet Media's show... There has been confirmation that we will have A well known Author/Friend of John Lennon and family talking about fun & never before heard stuff!..Stay tuned!
CLICK THIS LINK TO TUNE IN
Also on the show will be Tommie Brewster...This is from her page:))
I Delighted to say that on Friday 22 January I am invited to join Holly Stephey on her radio show from Red Velvet Media based in California. Holly's ethic behind her Company Red Velvet Media is
" To Fill the need for educating the world on so many different issues and bring about an awareness in Music,Spirituality,World healing & Love for the human spirit..Through Kindness..."
On Friday's show there are a couple of surprise guests that will be of interest I'm sure
to music lovers around the world. The show starts at 2pm PST - that's 4pm CST
and 10pm UK time.
I'm scheduled fo 2.45pm PST when I'll be chatting to Holly and some of my music will
be playing, notably You're A Liar which is now featured and spotlighted on dozens of
radio stations around the world.
I hope that you will be able to tune in and listen.
love from Tommie
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/redvelvetmedia
http://www.tommiebrewster.com

Gotta have Peace is Holly Stephey of Red Velvet Media

Hi,
Holly here to tell you all about the exciting new journey I have started..
Gotta Have Peace is a long time passion of mine...

**I will be doing radio interviews my first one set to air January 22ed 210 at 2pm PST!
Make sure to tune in on Blog Talk Radio under the Red Velvet Media page!

We will be promoting Peace and announcing some new projects that will be exciting for all:)

Again, we Red Velvet Media and Holly Stephey welcome "Gotta Have Peace"...
Say tuned for events to be announced...

Gotta Have Peace!

After the years of working with many individuals promoting Peace, I have decided to create my own Peace Group to help facilitate getting the message out there no matter where you are in the world!
Gottahavepeace.com coming soon
Please stay tuned for I will be adding new projects and events in your area that you may want to become part of.
For all of you that know me,I have always been very active in promoting peace!
As we all know, Peace begins with you and My wish for the world and everyone who wishes to obtain Peace in there everyday life is to Feel, embrace and Act on your feelings of what you could do to make the world a better Place.
Stay tuned ..Until then..
Peace, Love and happiness..
Holly:)

Christmas,Holidays and Memories

Christmas,Holidays and Memories...
Sitting here,I think of past.. Present and future.. The future holds for us all a time of Peace and renewal and rebirth..
The past is there to remind you of the things you most Loved and grew through..

In order for us to be able to move into the future.. We must embrace the present and Grow.. Learn..Love...
I want to "Thank all of the people " Who have made this past year a success for
"Red Velvet Media"...
We have grown , met new people and lost some loved ones along the way...
My one wish for AlL this Christmas day is to find Peace in you and find that one spot inside that needs Love, and Light!

Sending Love and light to all and my wish for
Peace , Love & Happiness......
Holly & Red Velvet Media

Red Velvet Media, Life, Love & Memories...

I am Sitting here thinking of the past year and all the changes ..positive, negative and life's lessons learned .. I personally want to embrace the changes that have come to the world in a more positive direction.. I still see conflict in many things but, my never ending hope for a world one day of Peace .. and harmony is not too far off in the distance..
I want to wish everyone who has been in Our life,Past and present ................
A never ending heart space of love and clarity to see the future and reach for your dreams and take the action that many of us at times have a hard time starting
in fear of doing the wrong thing...

There is nothing wrong when your heart speaks to you and you follow your dreams to make them today and your today a tomorrow..
I have always loved the lyrics to Ruby Tuesday ...

"Loose your dreams and you will loose your mind, ain't life unkind?"


We at Red Velvet Media want to wish you all a newness of life for the New Year and the holidays ...

I am very grateful to the people that have supported change
and given the time and Love to projects and productions that we
Red Velvet Media have done.


I send Light and never ending Love to those past and present ...I miss old Friends and miss Loved ones who have gone to the next place..
I pray that they have made it safe to the next place and that they see the never ending effort to make their positive influence a continuation of what they had started long ago...
I will end this with asking again.. 'What One thing would you do to make one change in the world today "?

Love ...Peace..&... Happiness...
Red Velvet Media & Holly Stephey~

Something fun to do if you are in the Sonoma or North Cali area:))
Click here to view event page!



Disco Night Dance Party! Saturday, November 21st from 7pm to 11pm at the Sonoma Veteran's Memorial Building, 129 1st Street West, Sonoma, CA. FREE child care at North Bay Kung Fu & Karate, 721 W. Napa St., Sonoma. Tickets are only $35 and include a full night of dancing, gourmet buffet, 2 drink tickets, $50 in casino script, and 1 raffle ticket. Full no-host bar. Disco attire encouraged, but not required. Prizes for the winner of our dancing contest! Silent Auction and raffle to be held with some very nice items .. Come bid and get a nice gift for yourself or loved one! Call 707-938-9478 to buy tickets!

Keeping Peace Alive!

To keep peace alive and going ... Every day is peace Day.... Peace begins with you and all that you do.. We have been very lucky to have this amazing song recorded for us for Global Peace day...
I am sorry to say the person who recorded this has asked us after giving us permission to use this Video that we are credited on to remove the Video ..(Not Very Peace Like) But non the less I want everyone to know Peace day is every day:))
*We are standing as ONE voice shining light onto all that good, bringing to the foreground all the kindness, love and compassion that we are.

IMAGINE PEACE TOWER unveiling ceremony in Second Life

IMAGINE PEACE TOWER unveiling ceremony in Second Life


For all of you that know me and all the work I have done over the Years with people that knew , loved & worked with John Lennon, This was a treat...
The dedication still went under way In Hollywood,Ca at the Capitol records Building as well as a few musical events around town centered around John Lennon...

Yoko made an appearance in the form of an avatar ..That is what you are in Second Life.. and she Danced .. Light her "ONOCHORD" and made a dedication speech..I will attach that as well as a link to the stream I personally have up from the tower ceremony that day.. It can be seen on flicker .. To view my Images GO HERE TO VIEW PHOTO COLLECTION



IMAGINE PEACE TOWER is an outdoor work of art conceived by Yoko Ono in
memory of John Lennon. It is situated on Viðey Island in Reykjavík, Iceland.


Yokos Speech for the Light tower in Second Life
IMAGINE PEACE TOWER UNVEILING SPEECH
by Yoko Ono Lennon
All spirits of goodness of this magical land, of the planet, and of the universe,
Thank you, thank you, thank you, for witnessing our humble gathering
For the unveiling of IMAGINE PEACE TOWER.
They say, if all the people in China were to jump up and down at the same time,
The axis of the globe would shift.
Well, we are here together. Billions of us.
Standing at the dawn of a new age determined to shift the axis of the world to health,
Peace and joy by loving and caring for all lives on Earth.
Some of us are here physically, some are joining us in spirit.
Some of us are imprisoned, tortured, maimed and silenced, but they are also here today with us.
Some of us have passed away before being able to enjoy a new age of love and peace.
But we are all here today standing together with hope.
The light is the light of wisdom, healing and empowerment.
Even in the moments of confusion, fear and the darkness of your souls,
Hold the light in your hearts,
And you will know that you are not alone,
That we are all together in seeing the light of peace.
I thank the people of Second Life, for giving so much love to this tower from its inception.
IMAGINE PEACE TOWER was visualized with love, and realized by love.
It is a gift from John and Yoko and the people of Second Life to the world.
I know that John is with us, too, in this land of Nutopia,
happy that the light tower is finally a reality after 40 years.
Let’s make a wish as the light goes on.
Let’s send light to each other and say I love you!
i ii iii
John, we love you!
Yoko Ono Lennon
IMAGINE PEACE TOWER unveiling in Second Life
9 October 2009

Red Velvet Media ...Peace One Day ! It happened:))

Red Velvet Media... Wants to Thank all of the People in the world who took part of this very important day!

Peace Day activities in Aftghanistan

Here is the latest news from Afghanistan in relation to Peace Day - 21 September 2009. The following statements were reased in the last few days.
President Hamid Karzai's message on the Peace Day 2009


Letter from H.E. President Hamid Karzai



Letter from H.E. President Hamid Karzai
ISAF to cease offensive operations on UN Peace Day





KABUL, Afghanistan (Sept. 17) - General Stanley McChrystal, commander of International Security Assistance Forces in Afghanistan, announced today ISAF will not conduct offensive military operations on Sept. 21to observe the United Nations' International Day of Peace.

"I have directed my forces to support our Afghan partners in ceasing offensive operations on September 21," said General McChrystal. "This is consistent with our intent to help the national army and police take the lead in protecting the Afghan people from the Taliban and other enemies of peace."

McChrystal's decision follows Afghan President Hamid Karzai's announcement that Afghan National Security Forces will not conduct operations on Sept. 21. Karzai noted that ANSF may continue to defend themselves and the Afghan public from insurgent attacks, and ISAF maintains the same provision for self-defence.

AMID WAR, A RESPITE FROM CONFLICT AS AFGHANISTAN MARKS PEACE DAY

21 September 2009 - A rare 24 hour cessation of offensive operations marking International Peace Day appeared to be holding firm across Afghanistan on Monday, with only isolated security incidents reported as of late afternoon.

"So far things are certainly different from any ‘normal' day at this time of year. We're seeing almost no incidents at this point," said Nauludole Mataitini, Chief Security Adviser for the UN in Afghanistan.

Officials at both Afghanistan's Ministry of Defence and NATO's International Security Assistance Force said the day appeared much quieter than usual, with only a scattering of minor incidents and no serious casualties.

Staff in UNAMA's regional offices reported a similar situation. "It's very peaceful... hard to believe," said Gabriel Iribarne, Head of Office in Kunduz. As of mid-afternoon, and with the exception of a rocket in the Nareza area of Khost province's Tani district that landed without harming anyone, and an unconfirmed incident in Kunar, things looked quiet. "We know there has been activity in Kunar's Nari district but at this stage it is too early for us to state anything categorically," said Nicholas Hercules, Officer-in-Charge, Eastern Region.

International Peace Day was established by resolutions 36/67 and 55/282 of the UN General Assembly, and aims to achieve a day of global ceasefire and non-violence. Of the world's major conflicts, Afghanistan has come close to achieving the aim of a complete halt in hostilities thanks to major campaigns since 2007. On Peace Day 2008 the UN's Department of Safety and Security recorded a 70 percent drop in security incidents in Afghanistan. Peace Day 2009 falls during the Eid ul-Fitr celebrations and the hope has been that the coincidence of dates would result in an even bigger impact.

Ahead of this year's Peace Day Afghanistan's Government ordered its forces to stand down. A similar declaration halting offensive operations was made by ISAF. The Taliban agreed to support a Peace Day polio immunization drive last week.