Friday, January 29, 2010
Red Velvet Media or I should say "Holly"(me) is no stranger to Valentine’s Day.
I remember last year and the response I got from the cool drink my friends made and I suggested.. Now I'm getting down to what I know all us Girls want!
After all.....We all want to feel girlie!:)))
If you’re after the perfect Valentine’s gift look no further than some of my personal favorite Valentine Gifts suggestions – featuring MY pick"s of the best treats to indulge and excite your lover, and ignite passion in the bedroom! But if you don’t know where to start... Read my Top Tips designed to make sure you give her what's really wanted this Valentine’s Day!
Tip 1: Colours that complement
Whilst scarlet red lingerie may be the tradition, classic black, rich cream and feminine pink are all guaranteed to please.
But if you want to surprise her, take a look in her wardrobe to see her favourite colours.
Most lingerie is available in a beautiful array of colours from vibrant orange to midnight blue.
Tip 2: Know her style
Consider her personal style - is she usually cute and girlie, luxurious and decadent, stylish and sophisticated or adventurous and daring?
No matter what she's like, you can find the perfect Valentine's lingerie set for her.
To get you started, here's some of MY favourites:
* Cute: Love, Minnie, Francoise and Fifi
* Luxurious: Love, Maitre D, Black Swan and Kiki
* Sophisticated: Damsella, Meteorite, Gypsy and Ponytail
* Adventurous: Cendrillon, Marylin, Marquis and Ruxandra
If you've only just met and don't know her too well you may want to try a flirty babydoll,Or if you've been together for a while, while not spice things to with a seductive corset or basque to make her feel utterly fabulous.
I remember a Easter one year and I had just stared Dating a man and he bought me the most girlie pink Lacey Gingham Babydoll with Matching Panties and little bows and the cutest pink and white cotton knee highs.. to Match with bows on top!
I wear knee highs under my jeans or with a dress..They are comfortable and oh so sexy and they are perfect for under boots....Just a Little showing at the top and .. you know what your wearing...!
Tip 3: Get the size right! I always hated getting a bra that was too small..:(
If possible, take a look inside the labels of her favourite lingerie set to find the size she feels most comfortable in.
Once you know what size you’re after, it's quick & easy way to find something that will fit her.
Tip 4: Complete the look
To make her feel truly fabulous, choose the bra first and pair it with the style of knicker(Panties) you think she’ll be most comfortable in.
The matching suspender belt(Garters) will make her feel like a true seductress, whilst stockings add an extra touch of glamour.
Spoil her, and watch her bring hosiery and suspenders into her everyday attire!
I personally like thigh Highs and not Garters but.. Garters can be very sexy and fun for some!
Tip 5: Lingerie isn’t the only option
Whilst a seductive lingerie set is always a pleasure to receive,
a slinky slip or curve creating basque is an alternative that never fails to please.
A pair of butter-soft leather over the knee boots will please the discerning fashionista, whilst luxurious beauty products too will make her feel fabulous.
I love wearing boots under Jeans or with a dress.... and Beauty products...Don't get me started..I love Chocolate Orange Body butter by "Fresh" and there SUGAR LEMON line is a must...the Soaps are cool too..they come in all sorts of fragrances and are a fun way to indulge! CLICK HERE TO GO TO FRESH! and My favorite thing to do is add real rose water to the final rinse of my hair!
I am often seen gathering rose petals and Lilac when its is season and I custom blend my own oils... Lately it has been Vanilla and Patchouli.. I do like mixing Chocolate with Vanilla too.. It depends on my mood ..But Real oils not synthetic are a real turn on and Last..You can find High quality oils at most essential oil stores.. Make sure they are pure!
Feeling daring? Turn up the heat with playful heart-shaped pasties or a teasing silk eyemask, or let her take control with one of our decadent whips or paddles...
I personally don't use Whips or Paddles but they are fun for the effect!
Tip 6: Have her Create a wish list!
Take the guesswork out of gift giving by asking her to create a wish list.
I have many! Not just the girly stuff but books, Music,Travel destination's, ETC..
Ask her to simply browse the web and save the items she likes in the correct sizes, before sending you her lust-haves.
I have so many bookmarks!I add new ones every day!
My Favorite thing or shall I say most men's favorite thing is most companies offer
Free gift boxes, discreet delivery & free online returns!
They take the hassle out of gift wrapping !
I like the boxes that are pink and girlie!
To maintain the surprise of your gift, Most will be discreetly delivered to your door,Or hers no matter where you are in the world...I never know where I will be!
Ummmm... Paris or a nice Island sounds good to me....As long as there is chocolate ..I'm there!
Thursday, January 28, 2010
I got this from Harold Becker and I so wanted to share this with all of you!
V day is almost here!
We are forever surrounded by love. From the rays of the sun that nurture and sustain life on our precious planet, to extending a helping hand to another in need, our existence is found within this unifying principle we know in our heart as love. Life itself is the expression of unconditional love and you are here right now simply because you are a magnificent presence of this same love.
The beauty of our journey is that we represent a full spectrum of sizes and shapes, colors and gender, beliefs and perspectives, while being ever connected in a common bond of unity through our heart. From the tiniest atomic particle to the brilliance of an imaginative idea that changes the world, it is love that guides our grand expedition in this experience of life.
We live to love just as we love to live. Each of us represents a wonderfully diverse and unique expression of our individual and collective potential to share love. This love animates and propels us forward to experience love in every aspect and facet of life. It is our deepest aspiration to embody this love since that is who we are at the core of our being.
Even when we choose to create the illusion that we are somehow separate from love, the potential to love remains in each moment. If we allow the perception of separation to last long enough so that we begin to doubt ourselves and this eternal connection, or even beyond to where the thought of fear intrudes, a simple recognition of our heartbeat is enough to remind us that love is right within our being.
You matter with each breath you breathe and step you take. Every action and interaction, thought, word and feeling makes a difference to everyone. No one could ever take your place and what you bring to this amazing tapestry of life is invaluable and cherished. This is the way of love. This is you… an amazing presence of love.
Love, light and peace,
Harold W. Becker
President and Founder
The Love Foundation, Inc.
“Inspiring People to Love Unconditionally”
Friday, January 22, 2010
JANUARY 22,2010 BLOGTALKRADIO LINK IS www.blogtalkradio.com/redvelvetmedia
****Please Join Red Velvet Media In ringing in the New Year and taking about all the important things that life will be throwing at us this year. You never know who may show up to talk on Red Velvet Media's show... There has been confirmation that we will have A well known Author/Friend of John Lennon and family talking about fun & never before heard stuff!..Stay tuned!
CLICK THIS LINK TO TUNE IN
Also on the show will be Tommie Brewster...This is from her page:))
I Delighted to say that on Friday 22 January I am invited to join Holly Stephey on her radio show from Red Velvet Media based in California. Holly's ethic behind her Company Red Velvet Media is
" To Fill the need for educating the world on so many different issues and bring about an awareness in Music,Spirituality,World healing & Love for the human spirit..Through Kindness..."
On Friday's show there are a couple of surprise guests that will be of interest I'm sure
to music lovers around the world. The show starts at 2pm PST - that's 4pm CST
and 10pm UK time.
I'm scheduled fo 2.45pm PST when I'll be chatting to Holly and some of my music will
be playing, notably You're A Liar which is now featured and spotlighted on dozens of
radio stations around the world.
I hope that you will be able to tune in and listen.
love from Tommie
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Holly here to tell you all about the exciting new journey I have started..
Gotta Have Peace is a long time passion of mine...
**I will be doing radio interviews my first one set to air January 22ed 210 at 2pm PST!
Make sure to tune in on Blog Talk Radio under the Red Velvet Media page!
We will be promoting Peace and announcing some new projects that will be exciting for all:)
Again, we Red Velvet Media and Holly Stephey welcome "Gotta Have Peace"...
Say tuned for events to be announced...
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
After the years of working with many individuals promoting Peace, I have decided to create my own Peace Group to help facilitate getting the message out there no matter where you are in the world!
Gottahavepeace.com coming soon
Please stay tuned for I will be adding new projects and events in your area that you may want to become part of.
For all of you that know me,I have always been very active in promoting peace!
As we all know, Peace begins with you and My wish for the world and everyone who wishes to obtain Peace in there everyday life is to Feel, embrace and Act on your feelings of what you could do to make the world a better Place.
Stay tuned ..Until then..
Peace, Love and happiness..
Fall is here and Winter is in the air,,, Stay tuned for new Lineup and events!